5 PRACTICAL WAYS TO BE A MORE ATTRACTIVE PERSON

 5 WAYS TO BECOMING A MORE ATTRACTIVE PERSON

 

As human beings, we cringe when others see us as unattractive. Naturally, we are wired to seek validation about ourselves especially from other people. This is why we asks questions like: How do I look? The yellow dress fits well on me, does it? Does my hair look okay? How about the shoe, does it match the dress?

Often times, we feel better when we get positive feedbacks from friends, family or trusted individuals because they validate our perceived beauty for women and handsomeness for Men. To us, we are better attractive to people when they perceive us beautiful, pretty or handsome.

While looks are important, it is more interesting to even know that becoming a more attractive person transcends beyond physical looks and appearance. It encompasses various traits and qualities that draw people to you or make you a person of interest before them. This is why you may or may not necessarily be whatever your society consider as ‘beauty’ or ‘pretty’, but anyone― just anyone can learn these traits or charm.

In this article, I am going to be sharing with you five [5] top practical ways that can make you a more attractive person, and let people gravitate and more positive toward you by simply practicing them:

1.   BUILD CONFIDENCE & HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM:

I think that we will only be confident of ourselves when we first see, accept and embrace who we are; putting in focus that we are all unique in our own ways. The reality is that self-confident people are considered more attractive. Build self-confidence by acknowledging your strengths.

Several factors too like adopting good personal hygiene and knowing how to practice self-care, learning to independently carry out tasks, setting goals and making workable plans to get them has also been found to boost confidence.

2.     DEVELOP EXCELLENT COMMUNICATION SKILLS:

Talking is often a universal ability. Anyone can talk, but effective communication and knowing how to initiate and sparkle conversations― intelligent conversations with colleagues, friends and even with strangers is a skill that does make you really attractive to people. Generally, people including me tend to gravitate toward conversation starters, story tellers and socially intelligent people.

 

3.     LEARN NEW THING/IDEAS DAILY:  

I’d always said that physical beauty may only be an advantage, but everyone―just anyone can develop an attractive personality. Statistics show that it is personality; I call charm rather than beauty sustains long-term relationships.

We subliminally form attractive lifestyle when we read, study, discover and learn new things all the time. And of course, it is usually evident in our style and manner of conversations with people. These habits draw people to you.

4.     DON’T BE BORING:

By ‘don’t be boring’, I mean have a life, an interesting life ongoing. Build a good social circle, hangout with friends, have fun, get new hobbies and routine and have fun doing them. Join companies that can also let people see you for what you do. You never would tell who’s watching. The rest is history. Ha-ha.

5.     MAINTAIN A SENSE OF HUMOR:

A good sense of humor can make you more likeable and approachable. Find joy in life, smile, laugh often and don’t be afraid to share lighthearted moments with others.

As aforesaid, the journey to be attractive especially to quality people is not solely about enhancing physical appearance. Physical appearance does matter. But cultivating an attractive personality traits and qualities is much more important in this journey. So embrace your uniqueness and let others see how unique you are. By so doing, you become a charm.

I hope it was helpful.